11 KINDS OF MEN YOU SHOULD CONSIDER FOR MARRIAGE

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I will want to roll out qualities you should give strong consideration in the man you should marry. Ladies, it seems there are fewer young men who qualify as marriage materials today. However, decent men still exist. Though there might not be a Mr. 100% Right, but there is a Mr. Right out there for you. Perfection belongs to the divine. Just like you are not perfect in everything, you should not expect to find a man that is holistically perfect. He does not exist.

While you search for your Mr. Right, look out for men who have sound character traits such as these:


#1. Strong moral code 

A man who abides by a moral code is definitely a keeper. He is the type of man who knows the difference between right and wrong. He ensures his decisions do not contradict his moral standard. A man who prides himself in morality and becomes your future husband will definitely instil moral values in your children. 


#2. Good relationship with his family 

A man who has a close and loving relationship with his family is the kind of person you should desire to be with. This type of man knows the importance of family and truly cherishes family time. He would most likely place great importance on the family he would raise with you. If he treats his mother with respect, he will most likely treat you with respect and it is obviously worth having him as a husband. 

                                  
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#3. Understands and accepts the sanctity of marriage 

A man who is a marriage material truly understands the real purpose and importance of marriage. He will most likely uphold a life-long commitment of fidelity and love to you and the children that will potentially result from your marriage. He won’t be in a hurry to think of separation or divorce if for any reason marital crisis arises because he would not want to have a failed marriage.


#4. Respects human life 

Ladies, a man who values the sanctity of human life from womb to tomb has the likelihood of being a great husband. A man who knows that human life is precious will be more open to welcoming children into the world after you get married. He will also do his best to ensure that the elderly in your family are cared for, protected, and live their life to the fullest. He will not want to abuse or hurt you or anyone. He loves and would want to create an environment where everyone is valued and happy.


#5. Values Hard work 

Another quality to look out for in a man you will marry is hard work ethic. A man with hard work mentality will never give up when working towards his ambitions. He will always work hard to provide your future family financial support, no matter what circumstances that come his way. He will also instil this same value in your future children. 


#6. Shared life goals

Though you might never be same in every way with your husband, it is very important that you share long-term goals. A man who shares similar life goals with you will make a great companion. Sharing that similarity with you, he will most likely support your efforts in life. He will always be there to comfort you when you hit your lows and rejoice with you when you achieve your goals. He understands where you are going and always want to go there with you. With such a man, you will always be travelling together in the same direction. Walking along the same trajectory in life, you both will most likely maintain a strong marriage, despite any setbacks you may face. 


#7. Honours Your Femininity 

A man who recognizes your beauty, inside and out, and honours your femininity is worth keeping. He will respect you as a woman and have a better understanding of your purpose in your marriage. He will place right values on you. He will honour you completely, not only for your physical appearance or features but will cherish the woman in you. He will understand your strengths and weaknesses and treat you as you should be. Men who treat their women with dishonour, abuse or beat them are people who do not understand or respect the femininity of a woman.


#8. Selfless 

A man who puts others before himself and gives a helping hand to those in need is a man you should not overlook. A man who values selflessness will most likely be a loving, supportive husband and father. When he becomes your husband, he will also encourage your children to be charitable towards others in the society. He will always put his family first before himself in everything he does. A man who has a heart for humanity is a man you want to be with for the rest of your life. 


#9. Faithful 

A man who is faithful not only to you, but also to God, will make for a great husband. This type of man will value and uphold the vows he made to you on your wedding day. He will value your importance in his life as his wife and mother to his children. His faithfulness to you will also underlie the steps he takes to keep your marriage stable for the family’s wellbeing. In addition, a God-fearing man will let God unify and strengthen your relationship. He will highly prioritize your marriage in obedience to divine counsel, and will make sure good morals form the foundation of your family.


#10. A lover of God

Because sincere and pure love comes from God, having a God-fearing husband is one sure way to have peace of mind in your marriage. You are so certain that for the sake of his relationship with God, he will not want to cheat on you. He will care for you and his children in obedience to the word of God. He will also help you develop and maintain a strong Christian lifestyle. The fear of God restricts him from being abusive. He won’t do drugs or get involved in crimes and criminality because that will offend God. He is a gentle man on the outside but a prayer warrior in the realm of the spirit. He therefore does not just protect his family in the physical but also in the spiritual realm.


 #11. Knows his purpose in life 

If there is a man you should avoid having any relationship with it is a man who appears not to have a purpose for his life. A man who knows his purpose in life is a man worth marrying. He will remain confident while pursuing his life’s goals. His life’s purpose is what drives his soul. Because he knows his purpose, he will probably be more career-driven, despite challenges he may face. With this quality, he will continue to be an inspirational force in your life when you two are married.

Yes, good men are becoming scarce, but know this, that there is a good man out there in our generation who would love to make you his wife one day. Likewise, he has a similar plight of finding a good young lady to marry. That decent godly man you will want to share a beautiful marriage with is out there. Although he may not come easy (good things don’t always come easy) but he will surely come.

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