4 TYPES OF WOMEN THAT USE MEN

A woman’s true character is most times hidden behind her beauty and physical appearance demanding more than a passing glance to know her. Even in a relationship you would need to do some digging beyond the surface to unearth her real person. Some women you will discover are users, and there are different kinds of female users that come the way of men.

#1. A Look-propelled User

This lady comes for you only because of your good looks. She doesn’t stop to openly compare your handsome looks with other guys. She praises and guards you jealously. She is not on you because she wants a godly relationship with you, but to have a sexual taste of you. Your charming look is her turn on and nothing more. Going to bed is her core goal. She will often throw herself flirtatiously at you. Do not allow her sweet words trap you. Rather look out for her antics to have you in bed. Don’t fall for her or she would dump you in spiritual and emotional tatters when she has gotten what she wants. She might want a very long relationship or even marriage but it’s all for your fine looks. She is excessively jealous when she sees other ladies around you. She monitors your calls and wants to know where you are at all times. She might leave you if you are not rich but if she goes on to marry you, then be sure she might cheat on you with rich men. She will remain with you if you are willing to keep on going to bed with her but will leave if you say no. If you are already involved with any my advice is, “flee for your dear life before it is too late”.

#2. The Emotional User

This lady uses you only as succour when she gets emotionally hurt. She runs to you when she is disappointed, abused or dumped by someone but is not interested in making any marriage commitment to you. She understands that you have quite enough soothing words that comfort a lady so she keeps exploiting that. Once she gets some level of healing from you, she disappears only to come back when she is in another emotional trouble. Your hidden need to be in control of a woman ensures you sustain the relationship. So you continue nursing her until she is tired of you or gets married to another man. While I don’t see anything wrong in helping a lady overcome her emotional hurts, everything is wrong when such lady one way or the other delays you from getting involved with a prospective spouse. Something is wrong when you keep waiting and hoping that one day she will get out of those hurting relationships and get involved with you and that seems not to be happening.

#3. A Parasitic User

This is the worst kind of female user because she leaves you emptier than she met you. A parasitic user gets you to fall in love with her, spend all your money servicing her frivolous needs, family and futile project. She then kicks you out when you are all spent emotionally and financially and moves over to another person. To know her, ask her how many relationships she has had and why they ended? You will be surprised that she has a long list of men she dated and left because, “the guy became stingy” or “he doesn’t have money”.

#4. A Multi-Relationship User

She wants to be intimately attached to two or more men at the same time. She is never content with what you do for her and so always wants more from other guys. This kind of lady is very willing to use her body as a bait for what she wants from her men. So don’t be surprised to discover she is well involved in pre-marital sex relationship with (some of) her men. She makes each of the men believe he is the only man in her life. When any of the men finds out, she tells him the others are just casual platonic relationships.

You should ensure you really know who you are marrying especially if you desire a home that will be joyful and last long. Get to know her before you say, “I Do”. How do you know her? Do your due diligence.

(Culled from the book, Things You Should Know Before You Say I Do)